When meeting someone in person for the first time, safety should always come first. Choose a public place like a busy café, restaurant, or park where there are other people around. Avoid isolated spots or allowing a private setting before building trust. Let a a close confidant know the details of your meeting, including time and place. Share your location with them through your phone. Arrive and leave on your own terms—don’t let anyone pressure you into staying longer. Keep your phone charged and easily accessible in case you need to call for help. Trust your inner warning signals. If something feels off, it’s perfectly acceptable to walk away, even if it might upset them. Don’t consume excessive alcohol or take beverages from a new acquaintance. Stick to water or nonalcoholic beverages you’ve opened yourself. Avoid sharing sensitive data such as your location, job hours, or bank details early on. Take your time establishing trust before revealing intimate details. Consider using a public transit or solo transportation instead of letting them drive you. If you feel uncomfortable at any point, don’t hesitate to cut the date short and exit. Your personal security and mental comfort matter read more than being polite. Always prioritize your well-being over keeping the mood light.